8:15am, forty-one years old. After the past year, it couldn’t come fast enough, it would seem, from some of what has been happening. What a difference a year makes. August and September completely upended, from the death of my mother to the end of a relationship we don’t talk about anymore. A cousin with a brain tumour in January, my father with the tumour they found in his colon a month ago, with two last week surgeries cancelled, for god knows how long (and a couple of other things I can’t discuss here). One hell of a year; stress and stress and stress. Upended, as one project ended and another began, currently working on my post-mother creative non-fiction work, “The Last Good Year,” working on poems that breathe and extend and most often halt.
The past seven months, letting my hair grow, long. Stubble declaring itself my first real beard; I haven’t shaved clean since the funeral. I have told myself: I will shave when I feel better. Does this sound pessimistic, optimistic, overly dramatic? Is this a bit like Samson, building and compiling strength?
Forty-one years: here no talk of origins but instead an ongoing assessment, reassessing. I have to admit, shock, at just how far away I currently am from the same time last year. The whole plan of what happens next torn apart, completely rewritten. The decapitated arc of three years and finding one’s feet again, how a new one begins. Curves, curls and aim. Can’t walk or run until you know exactly which end is up. Is this?
This new normal: I am writing it now, but so much that can never be the same. One step, and another step. Many years of my mother, leaving the 8:15am phone message I’d let ring, sleep, hear later. Who will call me now?
What stays a marvel,
poems for a forty-first birthday,
1.
hollow waves imagined;
study,
to tense a crease,
thin brush of sand
, remarkable
silken dust,
& floating bodies
tires & planets spin
at different rates,
, align
2.
oh, I see: randomly address,
the self
regular, a check
the passage of years,
condition, of
a foreign tongue,
3.
there is a way that time moves
, gravely
smoothed, & trimmed
with gold leaf,
blindness carved
through silhouette of earth,
a hinge,
transcript of houses,
wander
crackled soft,
& cut
4.
breathe, &
breathe
the secret hope is
buried,
marbled,
as if in truth,
indifferent cloud
inscribed
& raised
, part transparent
thermoplastic,
5.
a thistle,
cobwebs
taste
of lemon
6.
hard facts consign a rule,
depend upon
wheelbarrow stone,
or painted wagon
, Radio Flyer
hard facts a mile
, kilometre rough
unopened, tailspin
hardscrabble fables,
erase an edge,
a territorial boundary,
4 comments:
Happy bday Rob from a former sometimes beer drinker at royal oak downtown - 10 + yrs ago. I see it's been a rough year. I hope 41 will be better for you.
birthday!!!!!!!!!!!1
Happy birthday Rob.
From Gene Villeneuve
Go-tanjoubi, omedetou gozaimasu! 41 is young (young!) - from Fukushima Japan
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