Kelly Kaur grew up in Singapore. She works and plays in Calgary. She is a writer,
author, speaker and an educator. She was awarded the Top 25 Canadian Immigrant
Award, the Calgary South Asian Inspiration’s Outstanding Arts and Culture
award, nominated for a Pushcart Prize, and won Honourable Mention in the
International Human Rights Art Movement in New York. Kaur’s poem, “A
Singaporean’s Love Affair,” landed on the moon in 2024 — the first historic
library and an Artemis Accords Heritage Site. Her novel, Letters to Singapore,
will go up in 2026. Kaur has a passion for human rights and is a creative
writing instructor and Special Projects Editor for the International Human
Rights Art Movement, New York. She has a children’s book, Howdy, I’m Singh
Hari that was introduced to and celebrated at the Alberta Legislature in
Edmonton for honouring Punjabi Sikh culture and was just shortlisted for the
2026 Alberta Book Publishing Awards. Her creative works have been danced to on
stage, displayed on beer cans, at museums and art galleries, placed outdoors at
Leighton Art Centre, and is on a permanent display at the Little Museum of
Poetry in Italy.
1 - How did your
first book change your life? How does your most recent work compare to your
previous? How does it feel different?
My first book was
a novel, Letters to Singapore. It was a dream to see it published by
Stonehouse Publishing. It changed my life by giving me the inspiration to write
more, be braver, and take more chances. I also met the 3 other incredible
authors who were also published by Stonehouse, and we became friends. We
launched our books in Calgary, Edmonton, Regina and Vancouver, and the
experience was incredible. My second book was a children's book about the first
Sikh immigrant in Alberta - Howdy, I'm Singh Hari. This book was
well-received and one I am proud of as well. It has also been shortlisted for
the Alberta Publishing Book Award for the Children and Young Adults Book of the
Year. I love the feedback from everyone
who has read this book, especially the children I have read the book to at
schools and presented it online for the Calgary Public Library, and anyone can
still access it for free. My third book is My Love is a Durian - this
poetry collection is coming out on October 15, 2026, is yet another incredible vision
come true. I did not think I had a collection of poems at all until, one day, I
counted how many poems I had that had been published in anthologies all over
the world. These poems are special to me - from my heart and soul.
2 - How did you
come to poetry first, as opposed to, say, fiction or non-fiction?
I always wanted to
write poems. I thought it was easy. I struggled, continued, gave up, read more,
wrote more, edited, and, thankfully, I kept at it. I love the beauty of poetry.
I want to keep evolving, experimenting and writing more. Since I write in many
genres, I love dabbling and moving from one genre to the other.
3 - How long does
it take to start any particular writing project? Does your writing initially
come quickly, or is it a slow process? Do first drafts appear looking close to
their final shape, or does your work come out of copious notes?
I wish that I had
a million dollars and not have to work full-time. Therefore, I go with the flow
and steal whatever time I have. The first novel took me 100 days because I was selected
and was in a 3-month writing mentorship for BIPOC writers. I really wanted to
write that bucket list novel. I also had an incredible mentor, Aritha van Herk.
The second one, Howdy, I'm Singh Hari, was faster to write but more
laborious to start as I had to interview and research more before I could even begin.
For the poems, I love to procrastinate from marking university essays, so I would
meander off from grading essays and would write a poem, instead. Often, I
begin with an idea – for example, my Papa. Then, I continue with throwing out some
words/images/descriptions and recalling those special memories. Voila - I see
the makings of a rough draft poem. Then, I come back to it every day to edit until
it takes that shape that I like - it can take 2-5 days per poem. It is much
more fun than marking!
4 - Where does a
poem or work of prose usually begin for you? Are you an author of short pieces
that end up combining into a larger project, or are you working on a
"book" from the very beginning?
I am a thinker,
dreamer and crafter “in my mind and imagination” type writer. I have so many
ideas for a novel, and I am open to any opportunity that comes up. I have so
many ideas brimming and overflowing in my brain. When I see a theme or a call,
I am inspired to submit a piece. This year, I had 4 pieces accepted in 4
different anthologies - short stories, a poem and creative non-fiction.
5 - Are public
readings part of or counter to your creative process? Are you the sort of
writer who enjoys doing readings?
Luckily, my
toastmasters' experience has given me the practice, training and confidence to
present with joy. I made it to the top 100 toastmasters around the world,
represented Alberta and Saskatchewan at the 2017 Toastmasters World Championship
of Public Speaking in Vancouver. Then, in 2025, I was selected to give 2
different TEDx talks at Western University and McMaster University, both talks 3
weeks apart. All these experiences have made me enjoy doing my book readings,
though I still get butterflies in my tummy.
6 - Do you
have any theoretical concerns behind your writing? What kinds of questions are
you trying to answer with your work? What do you even think the current
questions are?
For me,
personally, I explore my own questions and concerns of being an immigrant, a
woman and a writer of colour. In my writing, these concerns, fear and
challenges are examined and prodded by the characters as well. I hope that readers
can share these observations, empathize, sympathize and think about these
invisible issues. Sadly, the current issues of immigration and colour persist
today.
7 – What do you
see the current role of the writer being in larger culture? Do they even have
one? What do you think the role of the writer should be?
A writer should
write. They should share their passion for storytelling. They should weave
stories that capture their own imagination and those of their readers. Some
want to entertain. Some want to make a point. Some want to educate. Some want
to experiment. Some do all. A writer should do whatever they want to do.
8 - Do you find
the process of working with an outside editor difficult or essential (or both)?
I have been very
lucky in that I had 2 amazing editors. Lisa Murphy Lamb from then Stonehouse
Publishing was my editor for Letters to Singapore. She was incredible. I
looked at her notes and suggestions and ended up adding 100 pages to my novel.
I appreciated her insights. For My Love is a Durian, I watched with
wonder and amazement as the brilliant Aritha van Herk, University of Calgary
Press, shuffled pages and pages of my poems on the table and came up with the thoughtful
plan and planning of the themes, besides her astute edits. I learnt so much from
my editors and was grateful for the end result. Essential!!!
9- What fragrance
reminds you of home?
I grew up in
Singapore. I go home very year to visit family and friends. It is a beautiful
garden city. Here are two flowers I remember. I grew up surrounded by
bougainvillaea and the intoxicating scent of the flowers of the frangipanni
tree – the Singapore graveyard flower associated with the Malay ghost lady
called a Pontianak. Of course, any
Singaporean will talk nonstop about the smell of Singapore food. Go to any
hawker centre and be mesmerized and enticed. I mention food in many of my
poems. Yes, the durian is that one scent that anyone who knows this fruit loves
or hates. Indeed, My Love is a Durian.
10 - What would
you like to do that you haven't yet done?
I would love to
write a play! I can imagine my novel, Letters to Singapore, as a play on
stage.
11 - If you could
pick any other occupation to attempt, what would it be? Or, alternately, what
do you think you would have ended up doing had you not been a writer?
I still dream
about being a lawyer. When I was a young girl growing up in Singapore, I gave
up on focussing on school because I grew up in a strict family where I was
expected to have an arranged marriage like my grandmother at 15, my mother at
16, and my sister at 21. Oh, my grades were awful because I was too pessimistic
and did not study enough to get those A grades. It was a miracle that I passed
my A level exams, ended up at the Institute of Education, and became a teacher.
And yes, I did run away from an arranged marriage.
12 - What is the best piece of advice you've heard (not
necessarily given to you directly)?
You don’t need
that house in Canmore facing the Rockies to inspire you to write. Just write,
ok! Advice given to me by me.
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